Happy Birthday to Me

Tomorrow is my birthday and I have already decided not to get out of bed. Not the good, I get to be lazy, not getting out of bed. The its not even worth it type of not getting out of bed. The day is going to suck.

My oldest son,the Marine, is out of town for his dad's wedding. His dad and I have remained friends and I am truly happy for him. I love the woman he is marrying. They make a great couple and I am glad they found each other. Did they seriously have to get married on my birthday? In the other side of the state? I really like having my kids with me on my birthday and Mother's Day. I miss the Marine and it sucks.

Princess Bean has been quite a handful for a couple of days. She is just getting over being sick and is two so she has been super moody. I was relieved when she woke up with her lovely smiley mood this morning. It was a trick. She has been very happy today. However, all that energy she didn't use while sick was store somewhere cause she used it all today. She happily stole every single drink I had all day long. She happily decided my food was better than hers only to spit it out a few seconds later. Of course she spit it right in the middle of the rest of the food making it very gross. She happily ripped her diaper off and ran giggling through the house.You name it and she climbed it. She happily threw her ball directly into my open eye. So I have a swollen ugly birthday eye for tomorrow. Yippie!!!!!!!!!

My wonderful SO, Hedge, is going to see his son tomorrow. He asked me if it was ok and I quickly said yes. I love when they get to spend time together and its always been a little hard for them. I considered it a cosmic birthday present that Hedge got a day with his son. Hedge decided it would be fun to take him to see Iron Man 2. Hedge is good about not telling me about movies I want to see if he sees them first so its a good choice for a young teenage boy. Now the problem. Hedge's ex heard about the movie choice and has decided she is going too. Guess who gets to pay for her to spend the day at the movies with my SO? Not her. If he says no to her she has made it clear she will take his son with out him. There is really no option but to grin and pretend not to be mad while he spends my birthday at the movies with his ex. The same ex that told me siblings only come from the mothers side of the family so Princess Bean is not her son's sibling. Nice!

So if you don't hear from me tomorrow I am in bed. Unless someone finds a damn good reason for me to get up I am staying there